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Deciding between wedding vs eloping is one of the most exciting choices you’ll make as a couple. It’s a decision that reflects your unique story, your values, and the way you want to celebrate your love. Whether you’re leaning toward an intimate elopement or dreaming of a grand celebration, I’m here to help you navigate this chapter with heart, joy, and clarity. In this blog, I’ll guide you through the key differences between a wedding vs eloping, helping you decide which option (or both) is the perfect fit for you!
Why Choose a Traditional Wedding
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What is the Difference Between Eloping and Getting Married?
Why Choose an Elopement?
Eloping is all about stripping away the extras and focusing on what truly matters—your connection and commitment to one another. It’s intimate, emotional, and personal.
For couples who thrive on spontaneity and adventure, eloping can feel like the perfect fit. Imagine standing on the edge of a mountain or exchanging vows under a canopy of stars, with nothing but the beauty of nature and each other.
Some couples choose to elope to avoid the stress and pressure of planning a large wedding. It allows them to fully immerse themselves in the experience, savoring every moment without the distractions of a big event.
Plus, you can channel your budget into the things that matter most to you, like a stunning destination, an incredible photographer (hint, hint!), or the honeymoon of your dreams.
Check out this blog for 5 reasons why to elope!
My Most Asked Questions About Whether to Elope or Not
1. Is eloping right for us?
If you’re all about intimacy, adventure, and avoiding the stress of a big event, eloping could be your perfect match. It’s about celebrating your love in a way that feels authentically you.
2. How do we make an elopement feel special?
It’s all in the details. Think handwritten vows at a breathtaking spot or even incorporating an activity you both love—whether it’s a cozy cabin escape or a scenic hike.
3. Can we include family or friends?
Totally! Some couples choose “micro-elopements,” inviting just a few loved ones, or plan a small celebration after the ceremony. It’s your day, your way!
4. How much does eloping cost?
Eloping is usually more affordable than a traditional wedding, but the costs depend on travel, location permits, your photographer (hey, that’s me!), and any extra details you want to make the day truly yours. For a quick reference, as of 2024, the average cost of a wedding is $34,000, whereas, the average cost of an elopement is between $5,000-$15,000.
5. What should we prioritize in an elopement?
Prioritize what speaks to your hearts. Whether it’s a stunning location or capturing every moment, the day should reflect your love story—raw, real, and beautifully unscripted.
6. Is an elopement a legal marriage?
Yes! Elopements are legal everywhere in the U.S. Just make sure to grab a marriage license and have a licensed officiant to make it official.
Pro Tip: You can self-solemnize in Colorado, California, Washington D.C., Illinois, Kansas, Maine, Nevada, Pennsylvania, and Wisconsin! No officiant needed—just the two of you!
7. Can I elope and still have a wedding?
Absolutely! Many couples do this, and it’s a fantastic way to get the best of both worlds. You can have a private, intimate elopement first, and later celebrate with family and friends at a wedding reception or ceremony. Just make sure your elopement is legally recognized, and keep your loved ones in the loop about your plans so everyone feels included when the time comes!
Why Choose a Traditional Wedding?
On the other hand, a traditional wedding gives you the opportunity to gather your loved ones and celebrate in a big way. It’s a day filled with the laughter, tears, and joy of having all the people who’ve shaped your life together in one room. The energy of a full wedding day is something truly magical, from the getting-ready moments with your bridal party to dancing the night away surrounded by family and friends.
If you love the idea of incorporating family traditions, having a large celebration with all your favorite people, or just reveling in the classic wedding experience, this might be the right choice for you. Weddings can also be a chance to get creative, from designing the perfect decor to crafting an experience that reflects your personalities as a couple.
How to Save Money if You Choose a Wedding
Weddings can come with a hefty price tag, but there are plenty of ways to celebrate in style without breaking the bank. Here are 9 of my favorite tips for keeping costs down while still planning the wedding of your dreams:
- Set a Budget
- Limit Your Guest List
- Pick an Off-Season Date
- DIY Decor, Save the Dates, etc.
- Opt for No Open Bar
- Simplify Your Catering
- Choose a Non Traditional Wedding Venue
- Limit the ‘extras” like elaborate florals, extravagant cake
- Stay in Budget with your Vendors
Want to see more ways to save for your wedding? Check out this blog!
Your Story, Your Way
At the end of the day, whether you choose a traditional wedding vs eloping, the most important thing is that your celebration reflects your love story. I’m here to capture those moments—the tears, the laughter, the joy, and everything in between—so you can look back and relive the day for years to come.
So, what feels like you? Wedding vs eloping? An intimate elopement on a mountaintop, or a grand celebration surrounded by your loved ones? Either way, I’m ready to embark on this journey with you, documenting every step of your adventure.
Ready to plan your dream destination elopement or wedding? Let’s make magic together. 💫
Want to see more of my destination wedding and elopements? Head to my Instagram and let me know which one is your favorite! Oh, and if you’re a Pinterest girlie, it would mean the world to me if you saved this blog to your wedding/elopement board! Simply hover over the image and press, “save”.
Destination Wedding and Elopement Photographer | Queanna Lynn Photography
Hey there! I’m Queanna, a Destination Wedding and Elopement photographer that is based in New Mexico. I am always up for an adventure out of state! I’m all about capturing the raw and authentic moments that leave a lasting impression in your memory. Think we would be a great fit together? Get in touch, here!
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